I need help...
Dec. 6th, 2003 10:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
datahawkYes, I just said that. As Duncan so lovingly pointed out last week, I have 30 lbs of shit in a 10 lbs bag.
I am a pack rat. And as neat and loving as rats are, a pack rat is annoying. I need advice on what to do with some of my stuff, cause it's getting really annoying to look at. What I want to do is clean out stuff that I no longer use/want. I have lots of decent stuff, good and usable. Meaning, I won't throw it away. But it's stuff I'm not gonna use. A rummage sale didn't work, we had two this year and barely moved anything. I wouldn't mind giving it to the salvation army, but they charge way to much. And honestly it's way to nice to just give away (but I'd rather do that at this point and just get rid of it). Any suggestions?
I also have stuff like folding chairs, sleeping bags, a bicycle, roller blades and costuming that needs to be stored. The attic works for some things (like the skates, which we likely won't use much in the winter). However the attic isn't easily accessible, I need someone else to help me up and down, and is well packed with other crap and Christmas decorations. Not to mention the books, and computer crap and other 'needed' things around the house that need useful places to be put. A number of you have been to my place and know it's fairly small. We have a 1 bedroom with a 'den' that's pretty much another bedroom without a useful door. I have very little closet space and very few cabinets. Honestly a garage would make a few things easier to deal with, but I digress. Any ideas? (that wouldn't mean getting rid of stuff I do use and need)
Plus, of course, I have way to many clothes. Now I am, above all things, a clothing whore (like my mom). If it still fits, I'll keep it. But even without those I still have way more clothes then closet/draws. There is also my letterman jackets (I was a jock and a band geek, go fig), my prom outfit, plus a few other things that I want to keep and don't want to store in a box in the attic, but is taking up space in my closet.
Plus I won't even go into my other things..you know like Barbie’s, Cabbage Patch Kids, Hockey Jersey's, Star Trek, Jem...ok you get the idea, that I really want to keep and especially have no room for (Garfield) that I know I will never really have the room to put 'up' (baseball hats) but really really want to keep anyway.
I know a house would help with things, like enough space to store linens and towels, cleaning fluids, vacuum cleaners, buckets and such, but I can't afford a house right now and sure the hell don't have the credit (let alone down payment) to get one. Any clues, WTF I should do? Cause if you have ideas, you got more then I do. Sorry, this was all brought up when I went into the attic to get the xmas decorations and spent as much time fighting with other boxes as I did actually getting the decorations down. I'm just really sick of this (looks and points around). My mom and grandmother are both pack rats and both still have stuff from when they were in their teens. I'm finding the same to be true for me and I don't want to end up in house/apartment full of shit that someone will have to go through when I'm dead. I want to be relatively normal. I know I will never be truly normal, or have one of those 'Martha Stewart' clean homes. But just having some place to put stuff would be sooooo nice.
Ah well, off to go through decorations boxes. Maybe I'll find gold in all that crap. And if you've read this far, thank you.
I am a pack rat. And as neat and loving as rats are, a pack rat is annoying. I need advice on what to do with some of my stuff, cause it's getting really annoying to look at. What I want to do is clean out stuff that I no longer use/want. I have lots of decent stuff, good and usable. Meaning, I won't throw it away. But it's stuff I'm not gonna use. A rummage sale didn't work, we had two this year and barely moved anything. I wouldn't mind giving it to the salvation army, but they charge way to much. And honestly it's way to nice to just give away (but I'd rather do that at this point and just get rid of it). Any suggestions?
I also have stuff like folding chairs, sleeping bags, a bicycle, roller blades and costuming that needs to be stored. The attic works for some things (like the skates, which we likely won't use much in the winter). However the attic isn't easily accessible, I need someone else to help me up and down, and is well packed with other crap and Christmas decorations. Not to mention the books, and computer crap and other 'needed' things around the house that need useful places to be put. A number of you have been to my place and know it's fairly small. We have a 1 bedroom with a 'den' that's pretty much another bedroom without a useful door. I have very little closet space and very few cabinets. Honestly a garage would make a few things easier to deal with, but I digress. Any ideas? (that wouldn't mean getting rid of stuff I do use and need)
Plus, of course, I have way to many clothes. Now I am, above all things, a clothing whore (like my mom). If it still fits, I'll keep it. But even without those I still have way more clothes then closet/draws. There is also my letterman jackets (I was a jock and a band geek, go fig), my prom outfit, plus a few other things that I want to keep and don't want to store in a box in the attic, but is taking up space in my closet.
Plus I won't even go into my other things..you know like Barbie’s, Cabbage Patch Kids, Hockey Jersey's, Star Trek, Jem...ok you get the idea, that I really want to keep and especially have no room for (Garfield) that I know I will never really have the room to put 'up' (baseball hats) but really really want to keep anyway.
I know a house would help with things, like enough space to store linens and towels, cleaning fluids, vacuum cleaners, buckets and such, but I can't afford a house right now and sure the hell don't have the credit (let alone down payment) to get one. Any clues, WTF I should do? Cause if you have ideas, you got more then I do. Sorry, this was all brought up when I went into the attic to get the xmas decorations and spent as much time fighting with other boxes as I did actually getting the decorations down. I'm just really sick of this (looks and points around). My mom and grandmother are both pack rats and both still have stuff from when they were in their teens. I'm finding the same to be true for me and I don't want to end up in house/apartment full of shit that someone will have to go through when I'm dead. I want to be relatively normal. I know I will never be truly normal, or have one of those 'Martha Stewart' clean homes. But just having some place to put stuff would be sooooo nice.
Ah well, off to go through decorations boxes. Maybe I'll find gold in all that crap. And if you've read this far, thank you.
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Date: 2003-12-06 11:00 pm (UTC)You say that you want to keep so many of your collections (Barbie, cabage patch kids, etc) but you honestly don't have the room to do it at your apartment, so in order to get things under control, you need to decide what things you want to keep accessible and what things you want because you someday want to be able to display them or whatever. If it's not something that you want to have accessible, then you need to find a viable place to store it. And if you can't find a place, then you're going to *have* to make a decision-- do you want to keep all of your stuff and live in the middle of the clutter that it creates, or do you want to get rid of it and have some organization? Lack of sufficient storage space pretty much leaves only those two options.
I know I don't have a whole lot of room to talk, but I *did* go through my house not too long ago and did some major cleaning. It makes a difference. And you know that I'm more than happy to help you clean, but you also know that my cleaning is going to result in the throwing away of a lot of stuff that you (and/or Posi) may not want to be tossed.
*hug*