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DataHawk ([personal profile] datahawk) wrote2009-04-12 10:56 pm

Open wound

I thought I'd begun to heal. I thought the pain had started to subside. Instead, I'm reminded that the wound is still there. The pain at the loss of a friend who will no longer be there. The reminder that someone made a very tragic mistake, taking a life and destroying his own. I may forgive him one day, that day will not be any time soon.

[identity profile] fuzzbear.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
wish there was something I could do to make you feel better.

::HUGS::


Call me if you need to, anytime
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[identity profile] jeshala.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
I was thinkin' about you today and wondering how you were holding up. I had to break the news to my cousin who used to work with him about what happened and it hit him pretty bad and opened my wounds up too again.

*hugs*

[identity profile] salexa.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
The wound will be there for a very long time to come. It will get better over time, but it will always ache at least a little bit.

When you can, work on forgiveness for the driver (but never forget). This is not for the benefit of that driver that wrecked far more than 2 lives, but for yourself to be able to move on and live the kind of life that would honor your friend.

.*hug*

[identity profile] snow-kitty.livejournal.com 2009-04-13 11:22 am (UTC)(link)
This really sucks. Knowing that it was just a tragic accident sort of helped with the healing process. Now with the current news, it just sliced right through again. :/

*hugs*